How To Cope With Anxiety, Panic And Fear

April 14, 2011 by  

Worried about money, anxiety over job security, worried about children, afraid of personal security, obsessed by feelings of inadequacy – such are the distractions that entertain the normal mind. Sadly, psychology has confirmed time and time again that the normal mind is plagued by negative thought. This negativity is entrenched in the subconscious – that part of our mind that was inculcated with this form of negative thinking during our childhood years – and is fed by the prevalence of bad news, negative coverage and the horror stories on which the media thrives. We are surrounded – from within and without – by negativity.

For many, that negativity leads to anxiety – we become anxious about everything that we don’t want to befall us. Anxiety often leads to fear – again, fearful of the things that we don’t want to happen. And, for some, that anxiety can lead to outright panic – and that panic sometimes overwhelms us when we least expect it.

The first thing that you need to appreciate is that, if you’re feeling anxious, fearful or panicked, it’s got nothing to do with the real you – it is the product of your over-enthusiastic personality. Your personality – who you think you are – is a fiction based on all the psychological pictures that you ‘snapped’ when you were young and impressionable. You ’snapped’ events that made an impression on you at that time and, now, your subconscious mind is using those snapshots to create what you perceive to be your reality. And, because your subconscious automatically invests your energy into these negative emotions, you generally end up proving yourself correct – you were right to worry, right to be anxious, right to be fearful – your life turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Research tells us that we are only able to perceive and experience what we expect to perceive and experience. In other words, if we change our expectations, our life will actually change. This, however, is easier said than done because, as I have already said, not only is your subconscious mind occupied by the long-term squatters of negative thought, you are surrounded by other people who are similarly minded. It is hard to believe that life could be completely different.

What you have to do is start re-building your naturaly ability to ignore useless, self-sabotaging and negative thought by redirecting your attention to what is real. Reality is awaiting your undivided attention in this present moment. To be blunt, this moment might just be your last – you had better get on with experiencing, living and capitalizing upon the reality of the here and now. The now is a place where anxiety, fear and panic are simply not. It is a place where real action is taken – action that can move your life in the right direction. It is a place where you meet life’s challenges head on – without anxiety or fear.

However, try telling this to someone who is desperate. Try telling this to someone who has given up on succeeding. Try telling someone who is in the throes of panic that it isn’t real. You’ve got to cultivate your ability to experience, appreciate and live in the here and now when it doesn’t matter so that you can be fully focused, fully alert, fully armed, when it does matter. So, straight away, take five minutes to simply sit down and pay attention to what your senses are telling you – not what your fictional personality thinks that they are telling you. Root out that imposter – out of your life – and see where life will take you.

How To Begin Practicing Meditation – Meditation Can Change Your Life

June 17, 2010 by  

Are you looking for the best ways that you can start meditating today and finally let go of all the stress an anxiety in your life? Fortunately learning how to meditate is not very hard but mastering this art is a life long journey that requires you to persist and enjoy every moment.

Meditation has been practised by cultures for centuries and is becoming more popular due to all the daily stress and anxiety we face in modern life, meditation can quickly elevate problems safer then drugs and other treatment. Drugs are not the answer to fixing problems. Let’s look at meditation techniques for beginners to get you started on the right path today.

The best way to start meditating is to set some time aside everyday that you can sit in a quiet and comfortable space. I know it can be difficult to put time aside but it doesn’t need to be a lot of time, you will quickly see that 10 minutes daily can quickly make you feel much better.

Sit upfront or lay comfortably and close your eyes, during this time try and let yourself go and start focusing on your breathing and the sound of your breath. You will probably have random thoughts pop into your head that can distract you, if they do simply brush them aside and bring your attention back to the sound of your breathing. At first you will find it difficult to push aside your thoughts and you may be overcome with the thoughts and images that pop into your head, stress less, they will reduce in time.

As time goes on you should begin to feel tingling sensations over your body as if your body is becoming lighter, you may even feel slightly euphoric, this is one reason why millions of people love meditation. Let this feeling spread up your legs over your torso and down your ups, up your head, let it overcome and bask in the wonderful feeling it brings.

The more you practice the easier it will become to get into a deep state of meditation, if you are struggling to enter deep enough, don’t think too much about it, it’s part of the learning curve. In time you will be able to quickly adjust and enter into extremely deep meditation and the joys that it brings.

Take your time and give yourself some credit, don’t get too hung up or stressed out if you are finding it difficult, it can quickly change and you will find yourself looking forward to your daily meditation sessions.

Dedicating time daily to practice meditation will change your life forever. You will begin to feel more positive, relax easier and melt stress and anxiety a lot faster naturally than you thought was possible. Meditation has so many physical and mental benefits that will leave you feeling absolutely fantastic.

Learn how to do meditation properly today and get your hands on tips to understand how to meditate for beginners techniques to take away a lot of frustration and struggle.

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How To Get Rid Of Panic And Anxiety Through Self Help

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